Negativity

Some days are worse than others. Seems like anything that can go wrong does. But how do we get ourselves over that? How do we change our negativity and irritation into positivity? It helps me to know that just as anything wrong can happen, so can anything good. Each day opens with a new hope of something we have been waiting to happen. Each day can be the best day of our lives.

What I wonder is why people who are negative remain negative? What has caused all the negativity in their lives? Being negative leaves me in a pit of despair. Makes me feel hopeless and mean. Because I am a positive person, I would rather be happy. So many people just want happiness in their lives, and wonder what will make them happy. To me this is the first step. And to also know that even though we are not going to have rainbows and sunshine all of the time, even the bad situations can be turned around with positive thinking as to how we can turn it around into something good.

For those that have the worst situations, there is always something that can be learned, or the thought that it happened for a reason, and will work out for the better. Even if we lost a loved one, although we will feel the unmeasurable amount of pain and loss, lonliness and heartache, to know that the person we lost is in a better place helps, and to know that even though they might have left us physically, they will always be in our hearts and minds.